Central Organization of Trade Unions (COTU) Secretary General Francis Atwoli delivered an emotional tribute to his daughter-in-law, Maureen Nyadida, while making it clear that no future family member will be cremated on his watch.
Nyadida, who passed away on September 7, 2026, had fought an 11-year battle with cancer. She was the wife of Prof. Lukoye Atwoli, Dean of the Medical College East Africa at Aga Khan University, and Atwoli’s firstborn son.
Speaking during a memorial service at All Saints Cathedral in Nairobi, the COTU leader admitted he struggled deeply with the decision. He revealed that Nyadida left a written will requesting cremation rather than a traditional burial.
Atwoli explained that he only consented after consulting with her biological father.
"It is not easy to get a good wife as my son did. She was not just a wife; she was a respected daughter in my family," Atwoli said, praising Prof. Lukoye for standing by his wife throughout her prolonged illness.
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COTU Secretary-General Francis Atwoli // X
While urging society to adapt to modern ways, Atwoli asserted his stance on traditional customs for his own household. He stressed that future departures within his lineage will follow cultural rites rather than written directives.
"I want to assure them that no member of my family I still have living... Yule atakuja na will, atapata the father of goons. It will go in accordance with our culture and traditions," he added.
COTU Secretary-General Francis Atwoli // X
A Legacy of Compassion
Mourners described Nyadida as a unifying figure, a devoted mother, and a woman of exceptional patience. Close relatives noted that she passed away peacefully in her husband’s arms, surrounded by loved ones.
Following the Nairobi service, her body was taken to Kariokor Crematorium. A ceremony to mark her final send-off is scheduled for September 20, 2026, at Mulwanda Primary School in Kakamega County.
Atwoli's address highlighted the ongoing friction between deeply held cultural values and modern personal choices during times of grief.