You being a good lover is about the energy he feels from you when you are aroused / PIXABAY
Women think that being a good lover is learning how to do
things for him in sex, to give a good blow job or hand job. That is like 10 per
cent of being a good lover to a man. An amazing female lover in sex is
generally defined by clear communication, enthusiastic participation and
emotional presence. Great sexual partners make each other feel desired, safe,
and deeply connected.
It is important for a woman to learn a man's body during sex
to improve pleasure, build emotional closeness and boost sexual confidence.
Knowing what feels good helps both partners feel happy and relaxed. Find the
sensitive areas because every man has different areas on his body that feel
extra good when touched. Learning the right pressure prevents pain and feels
better. This will build trust because paying attention to his body shows that
you care about his feeling and happiness.
2.ENJOY SEX
Men feel good when women enjoy sex because of emotional
connection, ego validation and empathy. Seeing a partner happy builds trust,
boosts confidence and releases bonding hormones, You being a good lover is
about the energy he feels from you when you are aroused, loving it; when you
are really alive with all that sexual feeling. This transmits to him a very
powerful energy. He gets turned on well from it. Sometimes women are so tensed,
anxious and keen on blocking noise, they are not present during intimacy,
forcing a man to dominate and help push the noise out of her mind. This is your
part as a woman to really be in your body. Learn to listen to sensations and be
in the moment.
3.INITIATE MORE OFTEN
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Women should initiate sex more often because it boosts
partner confidence, deepens emotional bonds and balances relationship dynamics.
He feels desired, removes performance pressure and increases happiness by
lowering stress for both partners. Many women do not initiate sex because of
responsive desire, social roles and daily stress, but initiating makes a man
feel truly wanted.
4.TRANSMIT LOVE
Transmitting love don’t mean loving in your relationship.
It’s loving during sex, physically transmitting the energy of love from your
body to him. Women have a huge capacity to do that. This would give him a lot
more pleasure and arousal, but more importantly, it deeply nourishes and
revitalises, restores and makes him deeply blissful and happy. Transimitting
love from yourself is beautiful; it’s your sexual energy flowing to your man. I
always teach women how to give love in a more sexual, passionate way or in a
deep nurturing way through the whole body. Channelling through the vagina gives
so much to him and you.
5.LEARN YOUR BODY
Learn the good sexual technique for you. Your body needs to
be treated right as well, and it’s important for him to know that he is
doing the right thing as well. It just makes him feel confident, relaxed. Some
men literally think that a good lover is a woman who enjoys what he is doing in
sex. Your role here as a good lover is not to expect him to just know your
body. Educate yourself on all the right techniques for you and the touch you
need, what might work for you from the right sources, and then communicate it
to him. Be a good lover by enabling him to make you feel good. Communicating
clear needs to your partner helps to protect your sexual health. Understanding
anatomy helps remove shame and leads to a more confident and satisfying sex
life.
