Laura Mbatha's remarks on the Sandwich Podcast about marriage and polygamy have sparked widespread discussion online after she suggested that a genuinely good man deserves to have a second wife.
"Me husema, if you are truly a good husband, then you deserve a second wife. I want women to be protected."
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The conversation arose during a discussion about the quality of men in society, with the hosts and Mbatha sharing their views on relationships, marriage and the expectations placed on men and women.
While addressing the topic, Mbatha said she believes women should be protected by good men and argued that if a man possesses qualities such as responsibility, leadership and care for his family, he should be allowed to marry more than one wife.
Laura Mbatha // Instagram
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According to Mbatha, the discussion was cantered on the scarcity of what she described as good men in today's society.
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She maintained that women naturally seek men who can provide security, protection, and stability, adding that such men are becoming increasingly difficult to find.
"Mind this is all delusional coz sijasema any good man. There are only 3 good men so far, baba yangu, baba ya Natalie Githinji na baba ya.... "
During the conversation, Mbatha stated that if a man has demonstrated that he is capable of caring for his family and fulfilling his responsibilities, she would not see a problem with him having another wife.
She explained that her position was based on the belief that women deserve to be under the care and protection of responsible men.
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The remarks quickly spread across social media platforms, where users shared clips from the podcast and debated her views.
The discussion attracted reactions from people with differing perspectives on marriage, polygamy, and modern relationships, with many referencing cultural, religious, and personal beliefs while responding to the viral clip.
Laura Mbatha // Instagram
@realchrisw0rld suggested that "A good man deserves one beautiful, smart, awesome, loving woman."
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Others revisited existing conversations surrounding monogamy and polygamy in Kenya, noting that the subject has frequently generated public debate whenever public figures share their opinions.
The podcast segment continued to gain traction as more users weighed in on Mbatha's statements and shared their own experiences and interpretations of marriage dynamics, with one user speculating:
"She's probably ready to become a second wife, and she's dating a married man 🙌🙌🙌😂😂😂"