Kenyan singer and entrepreneur Akothee has sparked conversation online after sharing candid views on relationships, money and personal standards.

Speaking during an appearance on Dr Ofweneke's Podcast under the “Lessons at 30” segment, Akothee offered blunt advice to women navigating financially imbalanced relationships, warning against confusing temporary luxury with long-term stability.
Akothee // Instagram

“That’s his standard, not yours”

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In her remarks, Akothee challenged the idea that being treated to expensive experiences reflects one’s own lifestyle.
“If a mubaba takes you to a five-star hotel like Villa Rosa Kempinski, that’s his standard, not yours. You’re just his teddy bear.”
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She stressed that enjoying luxury funded by someone else does not translate into ownership or independence.
“You cannot live a life you have not built.”
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Timing the message with “Lessons at 30”

Akothee's insights on the podcast continue to emerge as she reflects publicly on key life lessons under the “Lessons at 30” theme, which she has recently explored across her platforms.
While she did not present her views as absolute rules, her tone remained firm, grounded in personal experience and observation
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Her remarks quickly circulated across social media platforms, drawing mixed reactions. Some users agreed with her emphasis on independence, while others debated the realities of modern dating and economic pressures.Some comments from the conversation:
“Let's build our own life, girls 💔” — Renish commented
“Madam boss is talking facts, have mad respect for her ❤️” — Alex commented.
Akothee // Instagram

“Menopause” strikes a chord.

Away from the podcast,  Akothee has also been making waves musically.  Her recent release, Menopause, has been widely received, with many fans praising its bold theme and relatable messaging.
The track adds to her catalogue of music that often blends entertainment with social commentary, a style that has helped her maintain a strong presence in Kenya’s entertainment scene.