Comedian and TV host Dr Ofweneke has stirred up an online discussion about firstborn children. In a recent video, he questioned why firstborns often act so strict and quick to anger with their siblings.
The entertainer, whose real name is Sande Bush, posted the candid video on Instagram.
He pondered the "paradox" of firstborn behaviour, noting their caring side is often mixed with intensity and harshness.
The Firstborn Paradox
Ofweneke spoke directly to his fellow firstborns in the clip. He asked them to consider their own actions.
“But firstborns, let us be honest here. Why are we always so angry? Why can we not just let love happen? Why does our love for our siblings come with so much anger? I do not get it.”
He pointed out how quickly a firstborn's mood can change. One moment they can be loving and generous, and the next they are "lashing out like hell."
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The comedian urged firstborns to reflect on their approach, emphasising that relationships with siblings should be built on patience and understanding, not unnecessary strictness.
Fans Weigh In
The post received a lot of comments, especially from people who identify as firstborns and agree with him.
@ann_mbugua_254 wrote: “Na sisi ndio tuko ?? but I loveeeeee them so much ?♥️ hii hasira yangu inaweza chemusha njahi, even sometimes I forget my mother is the mother and I am the daughter ????.”
@mamishka51 added: “Heeee sijui shida yao hua nini aki.”
@its_hawa_carey simply laughed it off, saying: “Tulizaliwa hivyo ???.”
The discussion follows another recent piece of advice from Ofweneke, where he encouraged men to focus on their personal growth before getting married. Not to start pursuig their goals after Marriage.
He continues to use his platform to blend humour with important life lessons on family and relationships.
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