Tanzanian socialite Poshy Queen has opened up about an alleged romantic approach from Zimbabwean businessman Wicknell Chivayo, revealing that she chose not to entertain his advances because she is committed to her relationship.
Poshy shared screenshots of the alleged private messages on her social media page, giving her followers a glimpse into the conversation and her response to the reported interest.
The socialite's decision to share the messages has sparked conversation online, particularly because of the businessman’s reputation for living a lavish lifestyle.
For Poshy, however, money and luxury are not enough to make her walk away from the man she is with.
Poshy Queen Shares The Alleged DMs
Poshy took to social media to share screenshots that she says show Chivayo reaching out to her.
Rather than keeping the interaction private, she decided to show her followers how she responded to the alleged approach.
The socialite made it clear that she was not interested in pursuing another relationship while committed to her current partner.
Her message was centred on loyalty and the value she places on her existing relationship.
Poshy's response suggested that being approached by a wealthy man does not automatically mean she would consider leaving the person she is currently with.
‘My Affection Is Not Up For Sale’
In explaining her position, Poshy made it clear that her feelings could not be bought.
“My affection is not up for sale,” she said, according to the message she shared.
The statement captured the main point behind her decision: financial status is not enough to determine who she chooses to date.
Poshy also maintained that she is loyal to her boyfriend and cannot be swayed simply because another man has access to greater financial resources.
Her comments have since prompted discussions about whether wealth should play a role in determining romantic choices.
Even Helicopters And Private Jets Would Not Change Her Mind
Poshy went further in making her position clear, saying that even an extremely luxurious lifestyle would not convince her to leave her relationship.
She indicated that wealthy men with helicopters and private jets would still not be enough to make her abandon the man she is currently with.
The statement appeared to challenge the assumption that women can easily be won over by expensive gifts, luxury cars, private aircraft or access to a wealthy lifestyle.
For Poshy, the value of her relationship cannot be measured by the material things another person can offer.
Loyalty Comes Before Money
The socialite's response repeatedly returned to the issue of loyalty.
She maintained that she has chosen her relationship and does not intend to abandon it because of another person's financial status.
Her decision to publicly share the alleged conversation also gave her an opportunity to address the issue directly rather than allowing speculation about why she may have rejected the reported advances.
Poshy's message was essentially that having money does not automatically give someone access to her heart.
Poshy And Her Public Love Life
Poshy has previously been open about her romantic relationships on social media.
In January 2024, she publicly referred to Tanzanian singer Harmonize as “Adam wangu mimi hapa 🥰” after he introduced her to his online followers.
She also previously addressed claims involving Harmonize's personal DJ, Seven, firmly denying that they had ever dated.
At the time, Poshy said:
“I have never at any point in life dated Seven, used to be a friend and we have worked together he knows the truth, I am not that stupid, please respect my man and stop the drama.”
Her previous statements show that Poshy has been willing to publicly address speculation surrounding her relationships and defend the people she considers her partners.
A Message About Modern Relationships
The latest revelation has also opened a broader conversation about money and relationships.
In an era where luxury lifestyles are frequently displayed on social media, wealthy individuals can easily attract attention because of the opportunities and experiences they can provide.
Poshy, however, appears to be drawing a distinction between financial attraction and genuine commitment.
By sharing the alleged DMs, she has presented herself as someone who values loyalty over luxury and who does not consider money a sufficient reason to abandon a relationship.
Poshy’s Position Is Clear
Ultimately, Poshy Queen's message is straightforward.
She says she is committed to her boyfriend and is not prepared to leave that relationship simply because another man has more money or can offer an extravagant lifestyle.
Her declaration that “my affection is not up for sale” sums up her position.
Whether the alleged messages were intended as a serious romantic approach or otherwise, Poshy's response has made her stance clear: helicopters, private jets and financial wealth are not enough to make her trade her relationship for another one.
