Content creator King Kalalahas sparked debate online after using National Girlfriends Day to encourage women to be honest about their desire to get married.
In a video shared on her social media pages, Kalala said many women often claim they do not need men, yet deep down they hope to become wives.
The outspoken creator argued that there is nothing wrong with admitting that marriage is a personal goal and urged women to stop pretending otherwise.
“Ladies, let’s just come together and tell the truth. We want to get married. We need to stop this thing of saying we don’t need a man.”
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Cites celebrity relationships
To support her argument, Kalala pointed to several high-profile celebrity couples whose relationships continue to attract public attention despite their success and wealth.
She first mentioned football superstar Cristiano Ronaldo and his long-time partner Georgina Rodríguez.
According to Kalala, Rodríguez appears to have everything many people dream of, including a private jet, luxury cars, a mansion and a family with Ronaldo. However, she questioned why the couple, who have been together for years, are still not married.
“Cristiano Ronaldo has given Georgina everything in this world—from the private jet to luxury cars, a mansion and a family. But the question people still ask is: why hasn’t he married her?”
Kalala also referenced music stars Rihanna and A$AP Rocky, noting that despite Rihanna building a billion-dollar business empire and the couple sharing children, some people still describe her as “just a baby mama” because they are not married.
“Rihanna has a billion-dollar enterprise, yet people still say she is just a baby mama. Why hasn’t A$AP Rocky married her?”
Calls for honesty
Kalala concluded by urging women to be truthful with themselves instead of insisting they have no interest in marriage.
She maintained that wanting to become a wife should not be viewed as a weakness or something women need to hide.
Her remarks quickly drew reactions online, with social media users split over whether marriage should remain an important life goal or whether personal fulfilment is enough regardless of marital status.
The discussion reflects a broader conversation that has become increasingly common on social media, where debates about marriage, long-term relationships and modern gender roles frequently trend.
A new chapter for Kalala
Kalala’s latest remarks come just weeks after she surprised fans by announcing that she is expecting her first child. The media personality revealed her pregnancy in a playful Instagram Reel after weeks of speculation from followers over changes in her appearance. She later joked, “Hata simba hupatikana,” a humorous Swahili phrase suggesting that even the fiercest people eventually find someone who captures their heart.
While Kalala has not publicly disclosed the identity of her partner, her pregnancy announcement marked a significant new chapter in her personal life. The revelation prompted congratulatory messages from fans and fellow celebrities, many of whom praised the humorous way she shared the news.
Her National Girlfriends Day message has now added another layer to the conversation, with the content creator encouraging women to openly admit if marriage is something they genuinely desire rather than insisting they do not need a man.
