Kenyan media personality Dr Ofweneke has sparked debate online after advising women to carry their own money on dates, following a widely discussed incident in which a woman was reportedly left stranded when it came time to settle a restaurant bill.
The comedian and radio host addressed the issue during one of his recent shows, citing the incident as a reminder that financial independence matters, even in romantic settings.
“Ladies, before you leave the house for a date, make sure you have your own money. If things go wrong, at least you can take care of yourself.”
His remarks came amid growing conversations on social media about dating expectations, financial responsibility and who should pay during outings.
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The discussion gained traction after reports emerged of a woman being left at a restaurant after her companion allegedly walked away without paying. The incident triggered mixed reactions online, with some people blaming the man for abandoning the date, while others argued that adults should always be prepared to cover their own expenses in emergencies.
According to the broadcaster, carrying money does not mean a woman expects to pay the bill. Rather, it serves as a safety net should unexpected circumstances arise.
“Go on a date expecting to enjoy yourself, but always have a backup plan.”
A Familiar Topic for the Entertainer
Ofweneke has previously shared strong opinions on relationships, dating and finances, often generating debate among his followers. Over the years, he has spoken about financial responsibility, relationship expectations and the importance of self-reliance among both men and women.
His latest comments have once again divided opinion online.
Some social media users agreed with his stance, arguing that financial preparedness is a practical measure regardless of who initiates a date. Others maintained that the person who extends an invitation should be ready to cover the costs involved.
Wider Debate on Modern Dating
The discussion reflects a broader shift in conversations around dating etiquette and financial expectations.
Relationship experts have increasingly encouraged both men and women to approach dating with clear communication about finances, particularly as economic pressures continue to affect young adults.
While opinions remain divided on who should pay the bill, Ofweneke's message centred on preparedness rather than obligation.
“Have your own money. It can save you from unnecessary embarrassment.”
