'Serious Character Development!' Ciru Muriuki Comes Clean on the Luo Ex Who Had a ‘Hierarchy’ of Girlfriends

Speaking during an appearance on the Iko Nini Podcast, Ciru reflected on the experience with honesty and humour, describing it as a major moment of “character development” in her life.

The broadcaster explained that the betrayal came to light after her then-boyfriend — who was studying to become a doctor — lied to her about his medical school graduation celebrations.

The Graduation Party That Exposed the Truth

According to Ciru, she had already dropped out of medical school at the time they were dating, while her boyfriend had repeated a class but was still graduating alongside his sister, who was also completing her medical studies.

On the day of the celebrations, he downplayed the event, telling her it was simply a quiet family dinner without any party. Trusting his explanation, Ciru said she did not question the situation at the time.

However, she later discovered that there had in fact been a full graduation celebration — and she had not been the only girlfriend in his life.

“We Were Many Assistants”

Recalling the moment she realised the truth, Ciru painted a vivid picture of the chaotic scene at the party.

“They were crying in different corners,” she said. “Then there was the main girlfriend who was taking photos and feeding him cake. That’s when I realised I was not alone.”

She humorously described herself and the other women as “assistants” to the primary girlfriend.

“We were so many assistants — like assistants to other assistants,” she joked, while reflecting on how confusing the situation had been.

Looking back, Ciru said she even wondered whether her boyfriend deliberately kept her away from the party to spare her embarrassment or simply because she ranked low in his “hierarchy” of partners.

Reflecting on the Relationship

Despite the betrayal, Ciru admitted that the man had certain qualities that made the relationship compelling at the time.

“He was a very good-looking man and had vibes. You know Luo men are talented,” she said, acknowledging how that may have contributed to overlooking red flags.

After the breakup, she spent time reflecting on the relationship and questioning why she had accepted certain behaviours.

Ultimately, she described the relationship as unhealthy and said the experience taught her important lessons about self-worth, trust, and setting boundaries.