We acknowledge the pain! PCEA apologises after uproar over blocked tributes at funeral

The Presbyterian Church of East Africa (PCEA) has issued an apology to Kenyans particularly to the grieving family and mourners over an incident at a funeral service in Kirinyaga that descended into confrontation after a clergywoman barred oral tributes.

In a statement, the Church said it offers an unreserved apology to the people of Kenya, and most sincerely to the mourners and family affected by the unfortunate incident at a funeral service in Kiangai Parish.

“We acknowledge the pain, distress, and indignity that may have affected the minister and experienced by mourners during a moment that should have been marked by compassion, reverence, and pastoral care. For this, we are deeply sorry,” the Church added.

PCEA stressed that the actions seen during the funeral did not reflect its doctrine or pastoral standards.

“Let it be stated clearly: this was an isolated incident and does not reflect the faith, ethos, values, or pastoral practice of the PCEA. Such conduct is contrary to our calling and our long-held commitment to dignity, peace, and servant leadership,” the statement read.

Quoting Scripture, the Church noted that funerals are sacred ground where dignity must prevail.

“Scripture calls us to, ‘Mourn with those who mourn.’ Romans 12:15. A funeral is sacred ground. Any action that disrupts grief, violates human dignity, or undermines pastoral trust falls far below Christian witness.”

PCEA said it had taken up the matter internally and would address it through ecclesiastical and disciplinary channels.

The Church also pledged pastoral engagement with those affected and committed to strengthening safeguards to prevent a recurrence.

The apology follows a scene at a funeral in Kiangai, Kirinyaga County, where a clergywoman halted oral tributes from the deceased’s colleagues and barred a senior representative from the employer from addressing mourners, insisting that only written remarks would be permitted during the church service.

The decision quickly drew loud protests and boos from mourners, turning what had been a solemn funeral into a tense confrontation.

In a video seen by the Star, the minister stood her ground as she lectured the crowd on church procedure and order, even as family members, villagers and workmates demanded that the colleagues be allowed to deliver their eulogies.

In its statement, PCEA appealed for forgiveness and reaffirmed its commitment to ministry that reflects the compassion, humility, and gentleness of Christ.