Actress and media personality Dorea Chege has issued a raw and public apology to her husband, DJ Dibul, addressing remarks she described as “cruel,” “bad,” and “wrong.”
The controversy stems from Chege’s appearance on a television dating show, where she made several controversial statements about her preference for "controlling" her partner and refusing to date "broke" men.
In a detailed statement shared on 16 January 2026, Chege admitted that her desire for social media engagement led her to say things that deeply hurt her partner.
“I nearly broke my marriage. I don’t need to do things to make a show go viral. It is not what I meant,” she confessed, acknowledging that her pursuit of "clout" had backfired.
Taking Personal Responsibility
Throughout the address, Chege emphasized accountability and self-reflection. She openly criticized her own behavior, expressing disappointment in herself and acknowledging that the words she used were indefensible.
At one point, she directed reproach inward, stating that she bore sole responsibility for the remarks and that no external factors justified them.
Chege repeatedly described her behavior as unacceptable, noting that she struggled to find words strong enough to convey the seriousness of her mistake.
She added that she had learned an important lesson from the incident, stating that a mistake only becomes a lasting failure if it is repeated.

Clarifying Her Intentions
A central theme of Chege’s apology was the need for self-control and thoughtfulness in communication.
She admitted that she had spoken without thinking and acknowledged the impact her words had on her husband.
“Next time when I’m talking, when I’m saying things… I need to think before I talk,” she stated.
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She sought to clarify that what she said publicly was not what she genuinely meant, stressing that the situation had been misunderstood by some observers.
Chege explained that her verbal outburst did not align with her intentions or her view of her relationship, and she committed herself to being more mindful in future interactions.
Appeal for Forgiveness
In her address, Chege repeatedly expressed remorse, directly appealing to DJ Dibul for forgiveness.
She asked him to accept her apology and acknowledged the pain her words may have caused. The apology was framed as both a personal and public request for reconciliation.
“I’m here to apologize to my baby publicly. I’m really sorry for all those words that came out of my mouth,” she said.
Chege stated that her apology came from a place of sincerity and was accompanied by a promise of change.
She assured her husband and the public that she intended to uphold better standards of communication and conduct moving forward.

Commitment to Change
Concluding her statement, Chege pledged that the incident would not happen again.
“Please forgive me for what I did. And I promise it will never happen again” she said.
She described the apology as a commitment to personal growth and accountability within her marriage, emphasizing that she was determined to learn from the experience and ensure it would not be repeated.
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