TRHK’s Njambi wants to know why people idolize marriage, questions its essence in life

Actress Njambi of the Real House helps of Kawangware has raised very sensitive questions wanting to know the importance of marriage, much that many people just fast and pray to get married.

Through her Instagram stories, the beauty who previously shared her story of how she endured an abusive marriage until she finally left said she has never really understood why people fast and pray for the issue of marriage

“Okay guys don’t crucify me, don’t judge me, don’t come for me, but there’s something I have always wanted to understand. I hear of people fasting to be married, praying for their marriage, praying to be married, praying for a husband or wife…like I just want to understand why people idolize marriage so much?” she asked.

On top of that, Njambi also asked to be enlightened the benefits and goodness that comes with the status of one being marriage, asserting that in the short time she was married, she rarely saw any importance.

“Is it just me who doesn’t get the essence of being in marriage? Is it just me who doesn’t see the goodness or the advantage of being married?... I don’t really get it, I want to understand it,” she begged to know.

However, Njambi put it clear that her crucial questions about marriage doesn’t, in any way mean to discourage those in marriage or those looking forward to getting married.

She said that everyone has a right to make decisions that serves them right regardless of the many opinions from different quotas online, saying everyone deserves to be happy whether married or single.

“If you are in a happy union, well congrats to that, for those who are praying for better marriages I wish you all the best, for those wameniambia they are married and wish they never did, I hope you find better days…”

“For those struggling mentally in marriages may God see you through and for those praying and hoping to get married I hope you find your rib,” she said.

She also made it clear that she no longer fancy marriage based on the dark escapades she went through in her past marriage.

It’s not the first time she’s opening lid about her previous relationship which she describes as toxic.

In 2022, she took to Instagram to tell her fans how she found herself in a toxic relationship with a man whom she found it hard to leave.

“The shame of being in a relationship or having fallen victim to an abusive relationship actually kept me in it longer than I should have been. I finally had the courage and am sticking to that.

She also encouraged women in the same situation to leave without looking back and prioritize their happiness more than anything else.