For generations, many African societies assigned household responsibilities along gender lines. Women were often expected to cook, clean, wash clothes and care for children, while men were viewed as providers and heads of households.
However, social expectations are changing, particularly in urban areas where education, employment patterns and changing family structures are reshaping daily life.
The conversation resurfaced recently when Kenyan musician Otile Brown appeared on Radio Jambo with presenter Mwende Macharia. During the discussion, the singer questioned why some people still view cooking as a task reserved for women.
“Kuna tatizo gani kwa mwanamme kupika?”
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His remarks sparked conversation among listeners and social media users, many of whom shared differing views on the role of men in household duties.
A shift from tradition
Across Africa, traditional gender roles have long been influenced by culture, religion and community expectations. In many communities, girls were taught domestic skills from an early age, while boys were prepared for responsibilities outside the home.
Today,those distinction are becoming less rigid.More women are joining the workforce, pursuing higher education and contributing significantly to household income.
At the same time, many men are taking a more active role in domestic work, including cooking, cleaning and childcare.
Sociologists say the change reflects broader social and economic transformations rather than a rejection of culture itself.
“Families are adapting to modern realities where responsibilities are often shared.”
Cooking is no longer viewed as women's work alone.
The culinary world itself offers examples of changing perceptions. Many of Africa's most celebrated chefs, restaurant owners and food entrepreneurs are men.
From professional kitchens to family homes, cooking is increasingly being recognised as a life skill rather than a gender-specific responsibility.
Research by international organisations has consistently shown that women continue to perform a larger share of unpaid domestic work globally. However, studies also indicate growing participation by men in household tasks, particularly among younger generations and in urban settings.
Mixed reactions from the public
Some listeners agreed with the singer, arguing that cooking is a basic survival skill that everyone should possess, regardless of gender.
Upper_echillon:Another wise king Solomon.
Others maintained that traditional divisions of labour remain an important part of cultural identity and family structure.
Kelechiafrica: Woman are not guys bro mini sausage.
Several social media users shared personal experiences of fathers, husbands and brothers who regularly cook at home, saying such practices strengthen family bonds and promote partnership.
A broader conversation
While opinions differ, Otile Brown's remarks have reopened a discussion taking place across many African societies.
The debate is no longer simply about cooking. It touches on changing family dynamics, evolving cultural expectations and the balance between preserving traditions and adapting to modern life.
As more households embrace shared responsibilities, the question posed by the musician continues to resonate:
“What is wrong with a man cooking?”
For many families, the answer increasingly appears to be: nothing at all.
