Kenyan content creator and social media personality Liebe Kiki has sparked discussion online after revealing that she does not give lifts to friends who do not own cars.
Kiki shared the remarks on her Instagram page, explaining that she prefers her friends to arrange their own transport rather than rely on her vehicle.
According to her, the approach is intended to encourage independence and motivate people to work towards owning their own cars.
"My friends and I are so locked in, hakuna kupeana lift,” she said.
Read Also
Her comments quickly drew reactions on social media, with users expressing a mix of support, criticism and humour over her stance.
Encouraging Self-Reliance
In her explanation, Kiki said she advises friends without cars to use ride-hailing services such as Uber whenever they need transport.
She suggested that constantly depending on friends for lifts can create unnecessary expectations, while finding alternative means of transport may encourage people to pursue their personal goals.
According to Kiki, the arrangement works well within her circle of friends because everyone understands the boundaries she has set.
While she did not indicate whether the rule applies in emergency situations, her remarks appeared to focus on day-to-day transport arrangements among friends.
“Use Uber,” she advised, adding that the practice motivates people to work towards purchasing their own vehicles.
Debate Over Friendship and Boundaries
The comments have reignited a broader conversation about personal boundaries within friendships, particularly when it comes to money, transport and shared responsibilities.
Many urban residents rely on ride-hailing services for convenience. In Kenya, digital transport platforms have become increasingly popular, especially in major cities such as Nairobi and Mombasa, where traffic congestion and commuting costs remain common challenges.
Supporters of Kiki's position argued that people have the right to decide how their personal property is used. Others felt that close friends should occasionally assist one another when circumstances allow.
Social media discussions also highlighted changing attitudes among young professionals, with many increasingly emphasising financial independence and self-sufficiency.
A Conversation Beyond Transport
Although Kiki's remarks centred on car lifts, the discussion has evolved into a wider debate about expectations in friendships and the importance of setting personal limits.
Whether viewed as tough love or a practical approach to independence, her comments have generated significant online engagement and prompted many users to reflect on their own experiences with friendship, transport, and personal responsibility.
The comments sparked widespread discussion on social media about friendship and personal boundaries.
