Popular dance influencer Nasieku has weighed in on the ongoing social media debate over whether marriage is outdated among Gen Z, responding to claims that “marriage hubamba mafala” loosely translated to mean “marriage only excites the old-fashioned.”
Speaking during an interview with an entertainment journalist at thelaunch of the “Mid Young Crisis” event, Nasieku dismissed the generalisation, saying such statements unfairly judge those who still value traditional commitments like marriage and family.
“If marriage hubamba mafala, then our parents must be mafala — but I don’t think we can confidently say that,” she said.
Nasieku emphasised that the perception of marriage being “boring” or “outdated” is largely a product of forced narratives online.
She noted that not every young person subscribes to the same values, and everyone should be free to make their own life choices without judgment.
“Some people try to force perspectives on other people and term it as the Gen Zs,” she continued. “If someone wants to get married and have kids, let them.”
The origin of the viral statement
The phrase “marriage hubamba mafala” was first coined by content creator Chebet Rono, who posted it online, sparking widespread conversation and humor across social media platforms .
Her statement suggesting that marriage isn’t as exciting or fulfilling as it’s often portrayed quickly caught the attention of fans and celebrities alike.
Among those who joined the conversation were Bien, Arrow Bwoy, Phoina Beauty, Tileh Pacbro, and KRG the Don, each offering their own interpretations and personal takes on the matter.
For example,dancer and content creator Tileh Pacbro was among the first celebrities to respond to the viral statement.
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Taking to his Instagram stories, he strongly defended the value of marriage and highlighted several benefits of having a committed partner, including:
Having someone who is always there for you
Working together towards shared goals.
Raising a happy and stable family.
Tileh concluded his post by rhetorically asking whether any of those qualities “sound like ufala,” a direct response to those dismissing marriage as foolish or outdated.
His response resonated with many Kenyans, who praised him for offering a positive and realistic perspective on love and partnership in today’s world.
Promoting Respect and Choice
Nasieku’s response struck a chord with many Kenyans who saw her remarks as a voice of reason amid a polarising debate.
Her emphasis on personal choice whether to marry or not reflected a broader desire among young people for mutual respect and freedom in defining their own paths.
Social media users praised Nasieku for offering a mature, inclusive take that moved beyond mockery and judgment.
Her message reminded many that while attitudes toward relationships may evolve, empathy and respect should remain constant.
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