Former Deputy President Rigathi Gachagua has joined the viral “Marriage hubamba mafala” conversation that has dominated Kenyan social media in recent weeks.
In a recent interview, Gachagua shared his perspective on the trending topic, urging Kenyans not to dismiss marriage based on fleeting online opinions but to understand it as a lifelong commitment requiring effort, patience, and understanding.
“Marriage Works, But It’s Not a Bed of Roses”
Speaking candidly during the interview, the former Deputy President said:
“Marriage works, but it’s not a bed of roses. You have to work on it.”
He went on to explain that marriage involves two people with completely different backgrounds and upbringings coming together, saying:
“Two people were born separately and brought up differently — getting together to think and align the same way, it’s not easy.”
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His remarks come at a time when the topic of marriage and love has become a national talking point, sparked by online debates and reactions from popular figures in the entertainment industry.
The Origin of the Viral Phrase
The phrase“marriage hubamba mafala” was first coined by content creator Chebet Rono, who posted it online, sparking widespread conversation and humour across social media platforms.
Her statement suggesting that marriage isn’t as exciting or fulfilling as it’s often portrayed quickly caught the attention of fans and celebrities alike.
Among those who joined the conversation wereBien, Arrow Bwoy, Phoina Beauty, Tileh Pacbro, andKRG the Don, each offering their own interpretations and personal takes on the matter.
For example,dancer and content creatorTileh Pacbrowas among the first celebrities to respond to the viral statement. Taking to his Instagram stories, he strongly defended the value of marriage and highlighted several benefits of having a committed partner, including:
Having someone who is always there for you
Working together towards shared goals.
Raising a happy and stable family.
Tileh concluded his post by rhetorically asking whether any of those qualities “sound like ufala,” a direct response to those dismissing marriage as foolish or outdated.
His response resonated with many Kenyans, who praised him for offering a positive and realistic perspective on love and partnership in today’s world.
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