Ruth K's 5-Month Celibacy & Finding True Love in Her Son

Ruth K, known to many as the ex-partner of Kenyan comedian Mulamwah, recently engaged with her fans in a candid YouTube Q&A session.

Their past relationship, which included the birth of their son, was widely publicised, making her current reflections on love and life particularly resonant.

During the session, she opened up about finding profound love, her journey with celibacy, and her hopes for future relationships.

A Mother's Unconditional Love

Ruth K shared a deeply personal revelation about the nature of love, stating that she had never experienced true love from a man until the birth of her son, Calvin. She expressed how her son provides genuine affection that she had previously yearned for.

“I didn’t know that a man can truly love you like your son. I’ve experienced both. But a man who will love you truly is your son.”

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Her son is currently around one year and seven months old, or "almost two years," and she describes him as growing well, bringing immense joy and a deep bond.

Embracing Celibacy and Self-Reflection

In her pursuit of personal growth and a clearer future, Ruth K revealed she has been practising celibacy for approximately five months. She sees this period as beneficial for self-planning and spiritual connection.

“Celebacy is the best thing you can ever practice. Five months I’m doing good. I’m a proud girl, I’m proud of myself. It’s not easy, guys, but you sacrifice for the sake of a good future,” she stated.

She noted that celibacy helps her to "think straight," especially compared to navigating multiple external influences, allowing her to focus on her personal path with God.

Open to Love Again, But With Wisdom

Despite past experiences, Ruth K affirmed her willingness to fall in love again, stating, "Why not, guys? Why not?".

She is actively praying for a relationship with the right person and hopes for a love that is genuine on both sides.

“I’m just praying so hard to fall in love with the right person because one thing I learned, you can love someone genuinely, but behind your back, that person doesn’t love you. So that’s my prayer,” she said.

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She maintains a belief in the existence of good men and true love, refusing to judge all men based on a single past experience.

While she is open to it, she clarified that such a step is not imminent, stating, "I haven't said it's now". Ruth K also explicitly confirmed that she is currently single.

Beyond Relationships: Self-Care and Career

Ruth K’s current happiness stems from prioritising self-love and entrusting her life to God.

She shared that she underwent therapy sessions, which she found immensely helpful for managing overwhelming feelings and navigating her public life. She also balances her role as a content creator with her profession as a teacher, having taught for four years and holding lessons multiple times a week.

Her YouTube channel recently achieved a Silver Button for 100,000 subscribers, and she is now aiming for 200,000 subscribers.