People often remain in abusive relationships not because they are weak or comfortable with abuse, but because violence can gradually affect how they think and make decisions. This is according to psychologist Silas Kiriinya says says fear, financial dependence, isolation, low self-esteem and trauma can leave victims feeling trapped. Kiriinya says repeated cycles of violence followed by affection can also make victims believe they can change themselves and save the relationship.

SILAS KIRIINYA – WHY