Speaking during an interview on the RawTalk Hub Podcast, the singer said people should stop treating marriage as the ultimate life achievement and instead focus on living life at their own pace.
Sanaipei Tande // InstagramSanaipei’s View on Marriage
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During the interview, Sanaipei explained that society often places unnecessary pressure on people to get married and have children in order to appear complete or successful.
According to the singer, not everyone desires marriage or parenthood, and people should feel free to make choices that suit their lives without fear of judgment.
“Marriage is not for everyone; children are not for everyone,” Sanaipei said.
She noted that some people naturally do not see themselves becoming parents, while others simply prefer a different lifestyle.
The musician also pointed out that society is quick to question people about marriage and children, yet rarely supports them when challenges arise.
“Go at your own pace; the person questioning why you haven’t given birth yet won’t help you raise the child,” she added.
Kenyans React Online
Her remarks sparked heated discussions across social media platforms, with users sharing different opinions about marriage, relationships, and personal fulfilment.
One user, NaomiGalvi, agreed with the singer, writing:
“Exactly… marriage is not for everyone. It’s only unnecessary societal pressure.”
Another commenter, Ndila🌻, said:
“A happy life is an achievement whether married or not.”
Jeri Kennedy, 55, who revealed she is 45 years old and unmarried, said she has no regrets about not getting married despite raising children.
Others, however, insisted that marriage remains a major achievement in life.
Karmann Distributors commented:
“Yes, it’s an achievement. Marriage is great.”
Sarantha Migel also defended the institution, saying:
“A peaceful marriage is an achievement.”
Sanaipei Tande // InstagramDebate Around Marriage Among Celebrities
Sanaipei’s sentiments come at a time when several celebrities and influencers have been openly discussing relationships and marriage expectations.
Recently, entrepreneur and hairstylist Phoina sparked online reactions after joking that people become “foolish” when they fall deeply in love.
Her remarks followed viral comments by content creator Chebet Rono, who previously claimed that “marriage hubamba mafala,” a statement that divided opinion online.
Singer Bien-Aimé Baraza later weighed in on the conversation, saying marriage can still work when couples focus on love, partnership, and understanding instead of societal pressure.
