Kenyan media personality Mandy Kabay has sparked online discussion after questioning why some financially stable women choose partners she described as “broke or alcoholic.”
Her remarks were shared on social media, where they quickly gained traction and drew mixed reactions from users.

The Viral Remarks

In a brief statement, Kabay posed a direct question to her audience:
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“Why do some successful women date broke or alcoholic men?”
The post did not include an additional explanation but was widely reshared, prompting responses across different platforms.
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Mandy Kabaya //Instagram

Public Reactions

Social media users responded with varied opinions. Some agreed with Kabay’s concerns, while others disagreed with how the issue was framed.
A section of users pointed to financial imbalance as a potential challenge in relationships. Others argued that personal relationships are influenced by factors beyond income.
“People date for different reasons,” one user wrote.
Another added:
“Money is not always the main factor in choosing a partner.”
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Ongoing Online Discussion
The conversation has continued across platforms, with users sharing personal experiences and perspectives.
Some responses referenced emotional connection and compatibility, while others mentioned lifestyle choices, including alcohol use, as factors that can affect relationships.
No further clarification or follow-up statement has been issued by Kabay since the initial post.
Mandy kabaya //Instagram

Wider Context

The topic of relationship dynamics, including financial roles and personal preferences, remains a frequent subject of discussion online.
Kabay’s remarks have since become part of that ongoing conversation, with users continuing to engage and respond to her question.
Maandy Kabaya, born Amanda Mitchelle Wambui, is a Nairobi-born Kenyan rapper, singer, and songwriter who has risen to become one of the most recognisable female voices in the country’s urban music scene.
She began her career as a DJ shortly after finishing high school before transitioning into music around 2016, steadily building her profile through performances, collaborations, and releases that blend hip-hop, gengetone, trap, and dancehall influences.
Technical University of Kenya graduate, she first gained widespread attention with tracks such as “Shash na Lipgloss” and has since released projects including Kabaya, Frisky, and Flavour, earning a loyal fanbase and industry recognition, including being named a Spotify EQUAL Africa ambassador.
Known for her bold lyrical style and outspoken persona, Maandy has established herself as a prominent figure among Kenya’s new generation of artists, regularly performing at major events and contributing to the growth of the country’s contemporary music culture.