Kenyan digital creator and influencer Gloria Ntazola has stirred up debate online after calling out Nairobi men for what she termed as “poor dating standards.”
In a fiery rant shared on her tiktok account , Gloria accused men in the city of being stingy and lacking effort when taking women out on dates.
Her statement, which quickly went viral: “Hamtaki kununulia wasichana pizza or nice chicken! You always want to buy cheap food and still expect us to be excited?”
The bold remark ignited a heated discussion across social media platforms, with many weighing in on whether Gloria’s comments reflected a larger truth about dating culture in Nairobi.
Calling Out “Low-Effort Dates”
In her video Gloria expressed frustration at men who, according to her, '' men take a lady on a date and choose the cheapest food in the menu .''
She argued that dating should be about thoughtfulness and creating an enjoyable experience not just opting for the cheapest meal on the menu.
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Her criticism resonated with some fans who agreed that many men have become complacent when it comes to planning romantic outings. Others, however, accused her of promoting materialism and unrealistic expectations.
Social Media Divided
Gloria’s remarks sparked a storm of reactions on TikTok. Some users supported her stance, saying that “effort and presentation matter” in dating, while others countered that true connection shouldn’t depend on how much money is spent.
One commenter wrote, “I didn’t know pizza and chicken were expensive.''
The mixed responses highlight the ongoing tension between modern dating expectations and Kenya’s evolving social culture, where lifestyle, status, and authenticity often collide.
Gloria Ntazola’s Bold Online Persona
Gloria Ntazola is known for her outspoken personality and unfiltered takes on relationships, money, and lifestyle.
Her social media content often blends humor with sharp commentary, earning her both praise and criticism in equal measure.
While some fans find her confident and relatable, others view her remarks as controversial. Still, Gloria’s latest post has once again positioned her at the center of an online conversation about dating standards, effort, and modern romance in Nairobi.
Below is the full tiktok video :
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