Popular Kenyan musician and entrepreneur Esther Akoth, famously known as Akothee, has once again set a high bar for effective co-parenting.
The self-proclaimed "President of Single Mothers" revealed she has already pre-booked her children's holidays with their fathers for the next six months.
The musician made the revelation on her Facebook page, sharing an image of her son, Oywang, whom she described as a "baddest basketballer."

The Luxury of Forward Planning
Akothee detailed her strategic approach to managing the children’s time with their various international fathers. She explained that she booked their visits for December and next year's April holidays. This commitment ensures her children maintain close ties with their fathers.
The schedule allows the children’s fathers to choose other periods for visits outside of the two main holiday blocks. Akothee noted that she no longer worries about the children's choices.
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“I don’t cry anymore because now the boy makes his own decisions, we don’t decide for them where they want to be & with whom. We have to just insert ourselves in their program, so you have to book early. Like now I have booked them for December and April next year, the fathers can pick other holidays,” Akothee said.
She humorously noted that co-parenting is "not for the weak." Akothee is known for having five children from different relationships and often advocates for healthy co-parenting practices.

A Striking Swiss Son
The post was accompanied by a picture of her son, Oywang, who appears to be enjoying a swim in a pool or jacuzzi.
The young man is shirtless, with long, dark, slightly wavy hair slicked back by the water. His expression is focused and calm.
Akothee clarified in the caption that Oywang is her firstborn son. She specified that his father comes from Switzerland, adding a Swiss flag emoji to the post.

Advice to Fellow Baby Mamas
Akothee followed up her co-parenting announcement with a clear message directed at other mothers in similar situations.
In a separate Facebook post, she cautioned "baby mamas" against interfering in their former partners' new relationships.
She stressed that co-parents must respect boundaries and avoid using children as a tool for emotional access.
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“Stop using the child to access him and causing chaos in someone's house. Pick yourself up and do your thing. To women dating men with baby mamas, if the baby mama attacks or keeps attacking you, then your man is the problem.”

She emphasised that once a relationship has ended, mothers should focus on their own well-being and independence.
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