Kenyan TikToker Gloria Ntazola has sparked a huge debate after she declared that being a side chick is better than being the main girlfriend. Her bold statement, made in a viral video, has set social media alight.

Ntazola didn't hold back, claiming that many relationships in Nairobi are filled with cheating and shared partners.

“It’s not a must to be the main girlfriend. For me, being the side one is way better—it comes with peace, no stress, and even gifts,” she insisted.

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Ntazola argues that being the main girlfriend comes with a lot of stress. She listed constant worry as a key issue, including:

Checking his whereabouts all the time.

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Questioning his actions.

Worrying when he doesn't answer his phone.

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According to her, the side chick role is more peaceful. She even revealed a strategy she uses: if her man confronts her, she threatens to tell his main partner. She claims this often leads to him giving her gifts and favors to keep the relationship under wraps.

Online Reactions

Ntazola's controversial take has led to a flood of comments online, with many people sharing their own sharp and humorous takes on modern dating.

@nyaguthii wanjiku: “Main chic hulia mpaka anatokwa na balloon kwa mapua ??” (The main chic cries until a balloon comes out of her nose).

@Leen Lyn: “Naona ati mtu anampost social media and am like huyu nilimuona kwa jirani ????” (I see someone being posted on social media and I'm like I saw this one at the neighbour's place).

@Catherine Asher: “? Wakishikwa wanasema we are all polygamous in nature.” (When they get caught, they say we are all polygamous in nature).

While some found her comments funny, many agreed that her perspective reflects some of the unspoken realities of Nairobi's dating scene. Regardless of whether people agree or disagree with her, Ntazola has started a conversation that many people can relate to.